Life After Love… From the Heart of Curtis G. Aikens Sr.

Life after love….

Sat, May 19, 2018 7:44 pm

Curtis Aikens
What the fudge?
Yes as I said life after love! life after divorce one has to start all over figure out what you are going to do, how can you be a good parent, how can you be a good person! how with all that pain inside you, however, you do it.
Find a good lawyer who doesn’t just take your money. He or she tells you what is good for you for your kids for your family. The new families that you all are going to become. You have to say to your kids well you have three families now. When you’re with mom and when you were dad and when we are all together. Sounds like fun right!
Every day starts, love yourself first if you can do that, it’s hard especially when the people you love and thought love you were not there with you. You have to look in the mirror and talk to yourself and remind yourself of the good that’s in you and the good you have to share with the world and love yourself with. Remember the more you do something easier it gets in the better edit you become in one day one day you look in the mirror and you do say I love me I have a lot to offer. You have a girl Lauren right here she’s not just taken your money they help you live.
Next
You find a good therapist, a therapist that is a good person and a great teacher. She or he helps you learn how to fix your stuff. Yes, we all have stuff some call it shit LOL.
Therapist /Teacher helps you look at all those things in your past and figure them out to help you look at yourself and say can you be better can you not blaming other people for your shortcomings can you except the responsibility for how you caused it not to work.
Someone to help you answer those questions how can I be a good parent how can I be a good son, good brother or sister how can I be a better me first for me.
Life after love,
find love again love for yourself love for your community Love for those babies that will become grown-ups someday.
You have to love them even when they tell you they don’t love you.
Life after love is not easy.
Life before love Is not easy
live with love is not easy laughing out loud as I write this
Hell life is tough; however, Life is also grand
life after love
I’m exploring it right now! Namaste
Spread Love
Curtis G Aikens Sr.
Chef, spread love
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